As we are now at the gateway for the Aquarian Age we are visibly seeing more twin flames incarnate on the planet at the same time. Prior to this, only one twin flame would be on Earth while the other twin remained on the other side. The significance in twin flames finding each other is indicative that the planet is ascending to a higher state of consciousness. We must also consider twin flames are highly evolved souls who have worked on themselves, lifetime after lifetime, to prepare for the twin flame reunion. Individual twin flames will have visited Earth many times and are considered to be old souls.
A twin flame relationship is not about the twin flame couple but about the higher purpose of their twin flame destiny. This does not mean you won’t have a great personal relationship with each other, but you both must fulfill a higher calling. As a twin flame couple you have agreed, before birth, to bring something of value to others on the planet. In other words, it is your soul gift to the world. When we are in our early years, 20s and 30s, we are often confined to the rigors of job, family, children and caring for the home. In many instances this does not provide the bandwidth to create the soul gift; however, as we enter our 40s and 50s our lives shift and change allowing the space required to fulfill our twin flame purpose.
If you are in your early 20s and meet someone with whom you feel a strong connection, more than likely it is not a twin flame candidate. The first person you meet, from a romantic perspective, will not be your twin flame. It could be a soul mate or kindred spirit, as there are many similarities in all karmic relationships. When you are in your 20s and 30s you have not had enough relationship experiences or life experiences required to fulfill a twin flame destiny. This does not mean, however, these other relationships are worth tossing. All the relationships we have throughout our lifetimes are the building blocks that prepare us for the ultimate twin flame reunion.
Twin flames meet later in life because each twin must have several intense relationships with a soul mate or other karmic connection. These relationships will probably be difficult and end in a great deal of personal turmoil and heartbreak. When you sign up for twin flame relationship, working with your guides as you design you life’s blueprint, you agree to go through these difficult relationships because they will mold you for the twin flame destiny. You can’t have several soul mate relationships by the time you reach 25. It is possible, we suppose, but very unlikely, because it could take years to heal from one soul mate connection.
As you mature, emotionally and spiritually, you are opening the door for your twin flame to enter your life. For the majority of folks this does not happen until we reach our 40s. We all have a better balance between masculine and feminine energies when we are a little older. This yin-yang balance is very important for twin flames. You must be emotionally and spiritually strong for the twin flame destiny to manifest on the earthly plane and that only can come through personal growth. You must have this personal growth to provide your soul gift, the twin flame purpose, which will help and inspire other souls on their journey through life.
We do have one caveat to this, however. Twin flames can meet at earlier stages in their lives but they would not be ready for the twin flame relationship. They will go in different directions, have other relationships or live in other countries. Until these tasks are completed, they would not be ready for the twin flame reunion and all the blessings that come with their divine relationship.
We also invite you to read on another blog, Age Differences in Soul Mate Relationships