Twin flame separation seems to be a major talking point with almost every self-professed twin flame ‘expert’ today. They discuss how this is the most difficult phase of the twin flame experience and must happen before the twin flame reunion. They describe how one twin flame, the runner, runs from the connection. Meanwhile, the other twin flame, the chaser, attempts to make contact to encourage the twin to return.
We don’t agree with this because it implies the Universe never wants any of us to be happy in spiritual relationships. This could not be further from the truth. On the other hand, soulmates run from a soulmate connection because for the most part, they are unable to maintain the emotional and spiritual maturity required in adult relationships. Actually, there are many reasons soulmates run, creating a vortex of painful experiences for the soulmate left behind.
Twin flame relationships are the most spiritually advanced relationships. They may have to endure one or more painful soulmate relationships which provide valuable relationship lessons. All of this is to prepare them for uniting with their twin flame. They have been tested in many ways by the Universe, and not just with failed romantic experiences. They have a strong spiritual foundation and an awareness within them that we are all spiritual beings, here for a divine purpose. There is no purpose for twin flames to separate on the earthly plane.
We believe the twin flame separation occurs in the spiritual realm. Before being born, twin flames make agreements with one another to experience spiritual and personal growth before meeting on the earthly plane. They are both joined in the spiritual realm, happy and content, and then realize its time for one of them to be born. One twin may come to Earth for a life time while the other remains, waiting for their twin to return.
The one who stays on the other side is quite content in the spirit world, although they may watch over their twin from afar to make sure they completing their soul blueprint. The one who comes comes to Earth may constantly feel something is missing from their life. If they are evolved enough they may acknowledge it is their missing twin. If they not very evolved they may constantly feel a yearning for something or someone they can’t manage to find during their earth bound existence.
It may take hundreds, or thousands, of years for twin flames to incarnate together. They may have to endure many life times without their twin flame. They may spend a life time with them, and not incarnate together again for thousands of years. We believe the time without the soul essence of the other twin, is the meaning of the twin flame separation. Once they are in the same place, at approximately the same time, their twin flame journey can begin.