In searching for their spiritual partner some people will encounter a false twin flame. A false twin flame will have similar characteristics to the true one but the relationship will drain your energy. They can enter your life the same way as a true twin. Sadly, once they establish the connection, a false one will feed on your light. These energy vampires are unable to attain the spiritual evolution required of a true spiritual partnership. They will attach themselves to the spiritually advanced partner to bask in your glow.
Similar to a soul mate, a false twin flame is a karmic connection that allows us to work through our issues before the true twin arrives on the scene. As we mention in other articles here, a soul mate relationship is where you learn the lessons. A twin flame relationship is where you apply the lessons. The same holds true for the false twin flame. It’s possible, in some circumstances,that a soul mate and false twin could be the same thing. But for purposes of our discussion we’ll focus on the false twin flame.
FALSE TWIN FLAME CHARACTERISTICS
1. Intense sexual energy and chemistry.
In other posts we mention the nature of a true spiritual partnership is spiritual rather than physical. If the sexual chemistry off the chain, ALL THE TIME, and you urge to merge with this person, ALL THE TIME, it’s probably a false twin flame.
2. Emotionally draining
You feel emotionally drained each and every time you connect, speak with or even think about them. They feed on your energy, leaving you exhausted, dazed and confused. You’re the giver, they are the receiver. In a true twin partnership, energy is equally shared between the two of you.
3. Separating from you
A fake twin will create diversions and separate from you once they feed. They need this separation, whether emotional or physical, to support the connection. They can’t exist fully in the light of a true divine union. When they’re hungry again, they will be back to feed some more.
A false twin flame knows how to win the manipulation game. They know when to throw attention at you to reel you back in. Then just when you feel safe in the connection, POOF they go up in a puff of smoke. They will not follow-up on phone calls or emails. They change plans, cancel dates and perhaps disappear for a while. Ghosting you will become common practice. This will leave you feeling anxious and your anxiety, once again, feeds their energy.
5. Invading your dreams
A false twin will invade your dreams. These dreams will be very lucid and realistic, as if they travel to be with you during your sleep. There will always be a message attached to these dreams. Upon awakening you try to understand the dream, which again drains your energy as you try to make sense of it.
6. Constant obsessing
In a true twin flame relationship there’s no need to obsess over the relationship as both parties understand the connection on some level. If you connect to a false twin flame you will obsess about them 24/7. You will fantasize and day-dream about them and stalk them on social media. If you’re obsessive about a twin flame partnership, it is not a true twin flame.
7. Emotionally unavailable
A false twin flame will be emotionally unavailable. They will put up walls and blockages to their inner being because they don’t want you to see who they really are. A true spiritual partner will share absolutely everything with you.
8. Leaving for good
Once a false twin flame realizes they have taken all they can from you, and you have nothing left to give, they will disappear from your life for good. Then they will move on to their next victim.
It’s important to quickly recognize if you’re in a false twin flame connection. We recommend you assess the circumstances around your connection. If you need help, Sarah and Sophia are available to help guide you. Remember a true twin flame will inspire you to be all that you can be, while a false twin will use that energy for themselves.
Originally posted on 2016-01-07 @ 11:58 pm